[Reader-list] Oishik Sircar & Abuse of Wome

Sun Jan 20 17:51:53 IST 2008

Don't mislead...
The world knows that trucks of Women are exported by Pakistan to India (all HIV effected) for spreading AIDS in India... (I will get the Video uploaded on UTube on this, as this was shown by an external news channel)... and you say, women are raped in India..

You do not require rape in your community... there is freedom of having more than one wife.. there is no freedom to women to report rapes... who will show what happens in your community... The Quran says them all... and I have all senteces of Quran right with me.... Believe me, all awaken Hindus are now reading Quran... they all know what is there in that book... 
So, Muslims cannot fool the world any more that Quran teaches Peace...  and Islam is a peaceful religion...

Modi is a simple indication, what Hindus are now thinking...  It is Muslims who have to think now... they have created this world a land of havoc... Everywhere they are simply engaged in Killing....   
They even kill each other, as in Iraq and now in Pakistan... And they are seriously killing Hindus like anything.... If this is again refuted... I can start quoting dates with killing counts in countries like Pakistan, Bangladesh and Kashmir...  

I don't know, what is in their head.... How do they get so easily terrorised... What do they get in believing that killign an Idolator is a work of God...  It is stupid... and yet they all are keeping this faith in their head.... 
they all are not engaged in killing, but they all are engaged in supporting this act...
Quran says, forgive the Idolators only if they accept Islam... and Quran says this right from second Surah to the last one...

Why? Our religion don't teach about this variance at all... Geeta teaches how to unite, how to live with respective with each other, how to love, how to perform duty... Why can't you teach peace... 

Why can't you understand that Nature has created every creature (of all species) unique and different.. Nature has produced variance so that creatures can live with respect to each other... A specie is not naturally allowed to kill the same specie.. except for humans.. where humans are killing humans... 

Let India live with its heritage of Hindutva... Thousands of years of killing and enforcement have failed to eliminate Hindus... Another thousand will also fail... Because nature will keep the variance alive... But the attempt of Islam and christianity would only produce killing of innocent people...

Hindus would kill muslims only during riots or war... But Muslim would kill always for religious reasons... 
Please stop talking all these things..
Please talk peace...
Please talk how to proliferate the nation..
Please suggest how to remove the Quranic Islam and produce Indian Islam...
Please stop attacking Hindus, Modi and Army...
Please, please, please....

----- Original Message ----
From: Zainab Bawa <bawazainab79 at gmail.com>
To: Kshmendra Kaul <kshmendra2005 at yahoo.com>; sarai list <reader-list at sarai.net>
Sent: Sunday, January 20, 2008 3:42:08 PM
Subject: Re: [Reader-list] Oishik Sircar & Abuse of Wome

Dear Kshmendra and all your supporters and back slappers,

You can easily pinpoint Oishik for his outburst of anger and frustration and
then state that because he (mis)directed his anger at Vedavati and company,
he has no right to talk about  the abuse of Manipuri women at the hands of
the Indian state appointed soldiers there. How about for a moment
questioning Lady Chanchal and her remarks and for once again coming back to
the issue that Oishik has tried to raise - the rape of women at the hands of
state appointed army and the manifestations of the state's violence at
women?

Chanchal diverted the topic by once again going back to her pet peeve of
Islam and Muslim and her hang ups of some frozen history that she loves to
imagine. I pointed out to her that it has nothing to do with Hindu-Muslim
populations and Hindu-Muslim army soldiers but a larger question and concern
about women being direct targets of state violence (with that state violence
and injustice also being responsible for the rise of all kinds of other
movements to combat it). I then pointed to Chanchal how I have also been
eve-teased in Srinagar by soldiers. No, they did not come to ask me whether
I was Hindu or Muslim but made lewd remarks simply because I was woman and
bear breasts and bosom on my person. I also want to clarify that it not
about the soldiers themselves, but about the institutions and the systems
that get perpetrated within the structure of the conflict and occupation of
space. Chanchal immediately retorted saying that because I happen to be
"Muslim", I am likely to complain about being eve teased. *What kind of a
patriarchal and discriminatory remark is this?* This does not come to your
attention but Oishik's suggestion of anal stimulation immediately strikes
you and you make claims about the mothers and sisters of the world. You
don't recognize that we have turned this into a battle of whose position is
right and backslapping. In our egostical positions and pride and victimized
states, as Gowhar and others have rightly pointed out, we fail to see who
suffers - children who are beaten by the army, women who are serially raped
and butchered, men whose psyches have been muted by the violences, families
that continue to suffer the losses of their loved ones, etc. and this is not
restricted to Kashmir, but to violence all over the world. But perhaps, you
would brush this aside by exclaiming that these are standard complaints of
Muslims. And then you cleverly subvert every issue, incidence and event to
Kashmir and to Muslims. Clever you!

On this note, having personally known Oishik, I vouch for him as a very
sincere, honest and well-meaning person. One remark of anger and frustration
does not define a person's overall political commitments and thoughts. And
this would apply to my not boxing either of you as good or bad people on the
basis of your positions.

Best,

Zainab

*P.S. Any immediate retort/s to this email will be and ought to be
categorically ignored. *

On Jan 20, 2008 3:05 PM, <radhikarajen at vsnl.net> wrote:

> Well said, with lal salaaam.
>
> ----- Original Message -----
> From: Kshmendra Kaul <kshmendra2005 at yahoo.com>
> Date: Sunday, January 20, 2008 2:48 pm
> Subject: Re: [Reader-list] Oishik Sircar & Abuse of Wome
> To: sarai list <reader-list at sarai.net>
>
> > Oishik
> >
> >  1. Thank you for the suggestion directed to me. It does not
> > interest me. I too have some suggestions for you.
> >
> >  2. You seem to be obsessed with what you have experienced and
> > suggested. You see a lot of merit in it.
> >
> >  3. Charitable soul that you are, you must have promoted it to
> > your circle of family and friends.
> >
> >  4. OISHIT, since there might be others of your kind who might
> > not find your suggestions/language obscene and crude, you must
> > convince them about it. You must provide references for them on
> > the efficacy of your suggestion.
> >
> >  5. So OISHIT, I presume we will get testimonials from your
> > mother, sisters (if any), daughters (if any) and others to whom
> > you must have recommended the stimulation. They certainly would
> > have respected your suggestion. Maybe you even helped them in the
> > processes in the course of convincing them that your suggestion on
> > means to experience pleasure is not abuse. You must mention the
> > role played by you.
> >
> >
> >  Kshmendra Kaul
> >
> >
> >
> > OISHIK SIRCAR <oishiksircar at gmail.com> wrote:
> >  Kshmendra:
> >
> > That was not meant to be an abuse at all... it was meant to
> > suggest a means to experience anal stimulation that can be
> > orgasmic... I have tried it... so suggested that Vedavati do the
> > same... you could also do the same... actually all the HINDUS who
> > are obsessing about nationalism on this listserv should do the
> > same... they'll realise that there are better and more enjoyable --
> > and of course more useful things in life to do than spew virulent
> > intolerance. Suggesting means to experience pleasure is not abuse,
> > I'm sure you'll agree.
> >
> > And I am overwhelmed with the kind of response my comments have
> > attracted -- that's the way to keep the Hindu bullshitters engaged
> > I can clearly see.
> >
> > If you find this mail to be crude and obscene as well -- I
> > would've made my point.
> >
> > Cheers...
> >
> > Oishik
> >
> >  On Jan 19, 2008 3:16 AM, Kshmendra Kaul
> > <kshmendra2005 at yahoo.com> wrote:
> >  It is ironic that Oishik Sircar of all people should bring to
> > the notice of "SARAI" the protest by the women of Manipur against
> > abuse directed at them.
> >
> > Oishik Sircar, just a few weeks back (on Dec 25, 2007 in SARAI)
> > was the one directing abuse towards a woman in the most crude and
> > obscene manner.
> >
> > Wonder what the Faculty of Law at University of Toronto would
> > have to say to/about this hypocritical "Scholar in Women's Rights"
> > (sic).
> >
> > Kshmendra Kaul
> >
> >
> >
> >
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> >
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